Divorce

Divorce .... It's so present today in our society isn't it? It's so sad to see what God wanted to always stay together be torn part and thrown aside. People get married barely knowing one another and even Christians will get married and not keep Christ their focus and then it comes.... Divorce.... 

A marriage is suppose to reflect Christ and the Church. There should never be separation, adultery, or fighting, etc., but this all happens doesn't it? I hope and pray that I find a man that is Godly and strives to keep Christ the center of his life. A man that is Courageous and on fire for the Lord. I won't settle for anything less, because without a man like that divorce is likely to happen. I won't stop striving to be a woman on fire for Christ either or divorce will be likely to happen. I hope to find a man that can lead me, stand up when I can't, who can challenge my faith and uplift me. A man who can make me want to be a better follower for Christ. Who I can partner with in doing Christ's work....

(When I first heard this song, I fell in love with it. I want a man that would have this song as his theme song to life in dealing with family and marriage and following Christ. It's a GREAT song of how a Christian man should Lead)

I hope to find someone who won't give up the fight. Who will fight in this world of brokenness to never let us fall apart. Let what God has brought together never be separated (Mark 10:8-9~ and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”) ...Divorce is an ugly thing. It hurts everyone involved. Divorce runs through families and runs through our society. I'm not scared though for my future. I'm preparing now for my future husband (if I ever do get married) and I know God is preparing him and I will fight Satan and his attemps to tear down the picture that I would represent with my husband of Christ and the church. I will not give up. It will be hard. Marriage is, ask anyone!.... But with Christ at the center and focus on Him I hope to never have to repeat what my parents and many others have had to face ... divorce....